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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 15:51
msbrown who told u im not educated Dont Judge a book by it cover. so ms brown u never aruge with anyone b4 and if u didnt one day u will and u will feel what im feeling.
Dont judge me, i stand for myself trust otherwise how did i make that call. and im really confidnet in my self.
thanks for the reply
*anyone have any answers to my question plz feel free to rite me.
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 16:08
Hi Nancy, calm down a bit, she was only trying to help. Your posts do suggest that you are someone who could use some help. Two aspects for this, first the content and secondly your use of poor English, poor spelling and shorthand, eg u for you, 4 for for, plz for please and so on.
You came here for help, people are offering it, of course we don't know the whole story, how can we. However jumping down people throats is not the way to receive this help.
I am NOT a lawyer. Anything said is NOT legal advice.
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 16:48
martin0 well she was little it mean her words are little bit harsh and i do know how to spell but i dont care about spelling it right i mean i type quickly and i dont go back and read and correct but i wanted answers i didnt wanted advises and judgement. i mean im only 17 years old of course if you campare me with yourslef then my spelling....ect is poor.
thanks for the reply.....but dont you guys know in forums dont quickly react when read someone else quote and always read it in a good way instead of putting in a bad way. bye the way i just proved to her that i could stand for myself seeeeeee... . but you know is easy to judge. we are not living in perfect world and everything happens for a reason the thing that happened between me and my partner made me realize how much i need him, and he told me the same thing, and by the way he told me if i want to go or leave is my choice to do what ever i want.
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 17:15
You don't have to take peoples advice, but at only 17, you can either learn from other peoples experiences who are offering you advice, or learn the hard way.
I think what people are saying is regardless of the incident that involved the police, you seem to have some communication issues with your partner.
Taking your child out to the park & letting your partner know it is normal..... having to ask your partners permission to do it is not normal, especially if it leads to physical violence when permission is refused.
It's your life, your choice, but your child has no choice.... if the problems continue, maybe someone other than the two of you will make the welfare of the child paramount.... It doe's happen!
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 17:24
guys it was just a one time thing clam down well im the on who putted the premission thing anyways forgat about it how do i unsuscribe from this forums
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 17:30
Originally posted by jaazzz
You don't have to take peoples advice, but at only 17, you can either learn from other peoples experiences who are offering you advice, or learn the hard way.
I think what people are saying is regardless of the incident that involved the police, you seem to have some communication issues with your partner.
Taking your child out to the park & letting your partner know it is normal..... having to ask your partners permission to do it is not normal, especially if it leads to physical violence when permission is refused.
It's your life, your choice, but your child has no choice.... if the problems continue, maybe someone other than the two of you will make the welfare of the child paramount.... It doe's happen!
( It's your life, your choice, but your child has no choice.... if the problems continue, maybe someone other than the two of you will make the welfare of the child paramount.... It doe's happen!)
OKAY! what are u talking about...oh my god.... a push could do all that anyways what do u mean---->(maybe someone other than the two of you will make the welfare of the child paramount.... It doe's happen! )
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 18:14
Well its not hard to assume that a 17 yr old who cant spell and who has a kid and a domestic violence charge against her partner is uneducated. Maybe instead of being offended you should take on the advice that you have asked for? no one is trying to do you any damage, they are all trying to help.
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 20:59
Nancy, you need to talk about this with your other half as if the AVO is granted it could keep you both from being able to see each other.
Make sure that you have a say in it so that any AVO won't exclude you both from being with each other.
Good luck!
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 21:39
Nancy you've got to be thick skinned on here,don't take anything to heart.If there's a court hearing make sure you attend.Book in for counseling.Give your partner and your baby a big hug and move on.
Best of luck
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 22:41
thank you rjm techspec for ur reply u guys are so kind
*techspec how about if im married to him how can they keep us from seeing eachother. plz reply dont ignore me plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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Posted: 05/November/2009 at 22:48
Nancy if the two of you were to have some counseling and both enroll in a parenting course this would go a long way to overcoming any negative effects of the AVO.
I am NOT a lawyer. Anything said is NOT legal advice.
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Posted: 06/November/2009 at 10:42
The courts do things in their own time.You should get at least a couple of weeks notice of your court hearing.I'm pretty sure you'll be ok if you sign up for counseling before you get to court.Also-your partner can offer an undertaking to the Magistrate to attend counseling and keep his hands off you.The undertaking is a 'promise',if the court accepts this option then you avoid the AVO.
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Posted: 06/November/2009 at 21:09
Nancy being married is no sure fire way to stop separation because of an AVO, however attending counseling will certainly put you on the path to sorting out the problems and limiting the effects of it.
Good luck.
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Posted: 06/November/2009 at 22:34
yeah one more question how many court session till the court will make their final desicion and i asked how long the police is going to keep his record for because i dont want him to have a bad record cuz he such a sweet heart and because next time anything happens they always will hold that against him even if he didnt do nothing, you know what i mean.
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. but you know is easy to judge. we are not living in perfect world and everything happens for a reason the thing that happened between me and my partner made me realize how much i need him, and he told me the same thing, and by the way he told me if i want to go or leave is my choice to do what ever i want.
and because next time anything happens they always will hold that against him even if he didnt do nothing, you know what i mean.
